The best relationships are the ones where you don't know each other too well.
Know each other just enough to understand the vague references, unfinished sentences and tangential jokes. Don't try to read between the lines.
Like each other just enough to not mind the silence between conversations. Beyond that, the silences will become the conversations.
Care about each other just enough to not hurt the other person - but not so much that you run the risk of hurting yourself.
Trust each other just enough to share your dreams - but never enough to talk about your vulnerabilities
Be familiar with each other just enough to laugh at the other's silly traits - but not to the point where the silliness starts irritating you.
The best relationships are the ones that don't have a name
a structure
an end
The rest are not relationships. They are expectations.
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